It Takes a Village: The Role of Family, Partners, and Loved Ones in Eating Disorder Treatment

September 16, 2025

In our last blog, we discussed choosing the right eating disorder treatment provider means choosing a team that understands collaboration, complexity, and care that extends beyond just general therapy and nutrition sessions. In today’s post, we want to talk about treatment beyond the professional team; the role that family, partners and loved ones play in eating disorder recovery.

When Family and Loved Ones Are Part of Eating Disorder Treatment

Children and Adolescent Eating Disorder Treatment: Healing Through Family Understanding & Care

Eating disorders often create a deep sense of isolation—not only for the individual struggling but also for the people who care about them. That’s why we approach adolescent eating disorder recovery as a shared process. Family involvement isn’t just encouraged—it’s integral.

For children and teens, we often incorporate Family-Based Treatment (FBT)—a compassionate, evidence-based approach that empowers caregivers to take an active, healing role in their child’s recovery process. We partner closely with parents or guardians to ensure they feel supported, informed, and capable of guiding their child through recovery with both confidence and care.

We offer individualized parent coaching sessions, designed to:

Clarify your child’s emotional and nutritional needs
Equip you with practical tools for structured meal support
Teach you how to set boundaries that are both firm and empathetic
Support you in responding effectively to disordered eating behaviors

When caregivers feel confident in their role and better equipped to support their child through recovery, their child feels safe, seen, and supported.

Adult Eating Disorder Treatment: Inviting Trusted Support

Adults navigating eating disorder treatment benefit deeply from community and connection. While the path may look different than for adolescents, the need for meaningful, attuned support remains essential.

Whether it’s a partner, roommate, friend, or family member, we’ll help you identify and engage the people in your life who can show up in ways that are truly helpful.

This might include:

Creating a home environment that feels safe and nourishing
Offering gentle accountability during meals or high-stress times
Understanding how to respond to urges or eating disorder thoughts
Simply being present during moments of overwhelm or uncertainty

We honor your autonomy while helping your support system learn how to participate in your healing in a way that feels empowering—not intrusive.

Recovery Happens in Real Life: Accountability & Connection

Psychotherapy and nutrition counseling are powerful, but recovery happens in real life—at home, at the table, in social situations, and during the in-between moments when your providers aren’t in the room. That’s why building a recovery network is essential.

We’ll work with you to:

Identify and strengthen your personal support network
Educate loved ones on how to provide trauma-informed, recovery-affirming care
Develop personalized strategies for support between sessions

It’s not about surveillance—it’s about accountability, connection, and creating a web of care that’s strong enough to catch you if you stumble.

Finding Community: The Role of Eating Disorder Support Groups

If you don’t have a strong support system in your life, don’t worry—your psychotherapist or dietitian can connect you with eating disorder support groups, both in-person and online, where you can find community, validation, and understanding from others who truly “get it.”

These groups offer:

A judgment-free space to share your story
Practical tips for managing day-to-day recovery challenges
A sense of belonging and collective support

Connection is a powerful antidote to the isolation that eating disorders often create.

Your Village of Support – You’re Not Alone in Your Recovery

Eating disorder treatment should never feel like a solo mission. You deserve a comprehensive, compassionate care team that includes not just skilled professionals, but also the people who walk beside you in daily life.

When we say it takes a village, we mean it. And we’re here to help you build a trusted circle of support around you that supports your needs, respects your autonomy, and makes recovery not just possible—but sustainable.

At Coastal Collaborative Care and Fueling for Recovery, we specialize in this integrative, person-centered approach. If you or a loved one are navigating the challenges of an eating disorder, reach out. We’re here to provide compassionate, coordinated care in Virginia and other states—because recovery isn’t a solo journey. It truly takes a village.

Click here to read part 1 of our blog.